Fresh Beginnings

Why is it we all look at the "New Year" as a clean slate or chance to start over? Can't we do that anytime of the year? Why does it have to be January first? And do we honestly think the events of 2007 aren't going to impact us in our 2008 bubble? Do they all just crash to a screaming halt the second the clock chimes midnight, announcing the close of the previous year? And all of a sudden we are completely free of debt, loss, life changing choices, bad relationships, body image and self-esteem issues, and the like? Really? Just like that?

And why does the media place so much attention on New Year's Resolutions? Must everyone have a new goal for the year? Can't I set my goals anytime during the year? Why does it have to be done in time for January 1st? Why?

I guess I'm just jaded to it all. In my opinion, the New Year's holiday is right up there with Valentine's Day. I just don't understand it. At all. So much hype, just for the chime of a bell and the opportunity to shout out "Happy New Year!" for all your friends to hear. And of course, who could forget the excuse to imbibe in some alcohol. Because our society needs an excuse for that. Maybe I should anxiously await the dawn of each new day or the start of a new month. That should definitely warrant a reason to celebrate, right? Happy February! I mean, then I would be able to party 12 times at least during the year, because I'd be ringing in each month, not just the year! What a brilliant idea!

Except, I think it would get old. Just like having Christmas everyday. It'd lose it's excitement and would soon be viewed as a chore.

Sorry, sorry. I apologize for my lack-luster attitude towards the new and exciting year of 2008. It's not that I don't look forward to another year of growing older and hopefully wiser, but I just don't understand the hype around it. I'm sure the year will be filled with reasons to rejoice and celebrate, but I also know there will be times of mourning, anger, hurt, and frustration. Because, let's face it, good and bad are a part of life. We can never escape the bad things. But I will choose to focus on the good. And I do thank God for each day he gives me and the opportunities He brings my way.

Happy New Year everyone! ;)